Archives: Personal Reflections

10 Things Divorce Attorneys Won’t Say: “I’ve Only Handled a Couple of Divorce Cases”

Published: Monday, June 25th, 2012

For cases with a lot at stake or complex issues, a potential client should be less interested in cost and more interested in the skill and experience of the lawyer.

Perfect Prosecution Verdict in Sandusky Case

Published: Saturday, June 23rd, 2012

The prosecution got a perfect verdict: guilty on enough counts to warrant what will be a life sentence, but not guilty on a few counts, which should insulate the verdict on appeal.

10 Things Divorce Attorneys Won’t Say: “I Make Promises I Can’t Keep”

Published: Friday, June 22nd, 2012

Good, professional lawyers do not over promise. Rather, we give a realistic appraisal.

10 Things Divorce Attorneys Won’t Say: “My Lack of Fiscal Know-how Will Cost You”

Published: Wednesday, June 20th, 2012

In a case where there are complex financial circumstances involved, parties should hire lawyers with sufficient experience and knowledge to understand them, but also to understand when a higher degree of expertise is warranted.

10 Things Divorce Attorneys Won’t Say: ” I Get Sued — A lot.”

Published: Monday, June 18th, 2012

Smart Money’s article on divorce attorneys does make a good point, although it is not real clear on what it means to “get sued.”

10 Things Divorce Attorneys Won’t Say: “You’ll Pay More…”

Published: Thursday, June 14th, 2012

Good divorce lawyers will never guarantee a fee. At best, we can give an estimate, and hope the client remembers that it was just that – an estimate.

How to Select a Divorce Lawyer

Published: Tuesday, May 8th, 2012

Picking the right divorce lawyer shouldn’t just turn on their retainer.

Does Mandatory Pro Bono Work Make Sense?

Published: Wednesday, May 2nd, 2012

I have a few questions about New York’s new requirement that lawyers perform unpaid work before being licensed to practice.

Divorce Revenge Stories: Pulling Teeth

Published: Tuesday, May 1st, 2012

Revenge stories are always fun and all of us divorce lawyers have a few to share. But, none of mine can top the one concerning an ex-girlfriend dentist pulling out all of her ex-boyfriends teeth.

Family Advocate a Must for Family Law Attorneys

Published: Tuesday, April 17th, 2012

The ABA’s Family Advocate is a must have subscription for family law attorneys.